Books can be a crackerjack supplement to personal growth and therapy. The Book Nook is an ever-growing hub for all my mental health-related favourites.

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Love Lives Here: A Story of Thriving in a Transgender Family

by Rowan Jete Knox (2019)

A trans family memoir, showing what is possible within challenge, when love comes first.

Pink, Blue, and You!: Questions for Kids about Gender Stereotypes

by Elise Gravel and Mykaell Blais (2022)

A children’s picture book told with sweetness and humour, that will also delight many adults too.

It’s About You Too: Reducing the Overwhelm for Parents of LGBTQ+ Kids

by Tracy Whitmore (2023)

The author stresses that when parents can honour their own thoughts, feelings and reactions to  their LGBTQ+ children’s gender and/or sexuality journeys, they are in the best position to wholeheartedly support their children. A practical, encouraging book. Recommended.

The Pride Guide: A Guide to Sexual and Social Health for LGBTQ Youth

by Jo Langford (2020)

While designed for youth, this book–written by a sex-educator and longtime therapist–has practical and helpful information for parents who wish to better undersand and support their LGBTQ+ children.

The Transgender Child: Revised & Updated Edition: A Handbook for Parents and Professionals Supporting Transgender and Nonbinary Children

by Stephanie Brill and Rachel Pepper (2022)

A thorough guide for families wanting to understand and affirm their transgender, gender-expansive, or nonbinary child, including transition-related information and guidance. The book also includes resources and a glossary of terms.

Supporting Transgender Autistic Youth and Adults: A Guide for Professionals and Families

by Finn Grafton (2019)

An important intersectional work from a therapist with lived experience. Recommended.

A Quick and Easy Guide to Queer and Trans Identities

by Mady G. & Jules Zuckerberg (2019)

A ‘101’ of the LGBTQ communities in a short illustrated guide: sexuality, gender identity, coming out, navigating relationships and more. Especially fun if you love mushroom illustrations.

A Quick and Easy Guide to They/Them Pronouns

by A. Bongiovanni & T. Jimmerson (2018)

Mini illustrated guide in comic form, packed with info and suggestions on using they/them pronouns. Now considered a classic. Especially recommended for family, friends and support people.

Beyond The Gender Binary

by Alok Vaid-Menon (2020)

Through the lens of their own life, this gender-nonconforming author compassionately explores and reimagines the gender binary.